My dashboard on Tumblr , http://masters-cunt.tumblr.com, is full of beautiful women kneeling peacefully, perfectly composed men seemingly in total power and proclamations of the true things Doms/Masters do.
We see fantasies lived out, but this is not true D/s and far from perfect.
Most pictures portrait the sexual and serving parts of D/s and not real life.
What we see are scenes.
Once I thought I was living the perfect and true D/s.
But I was deceived.
True and real D/s is living the dynamic with all it's flaws, where both Dom and sub are as one, allowing themselves to be sick, tired, not in the mood, cranky, defiant, disagreeable, defensive , or even disappoint each other.
Real D/s has depth, it has problems, it has bad days.
They actually share a life together, go out, meet friends and family together, go to see the occasional movie and don't hide in the dark.
They are proud of each other and the life they have chosen.
Real and true D/s does not stop at the front door or when a scene ends.
It is a commitment like any other, to each other.
You become part of each others life.
Anything less then this is just play, fake or deceit.